'You Finally Have Someone To Speak To"
The letters Lauren received and her advice.
I'm after an affair and it's so emotional. I never got caught, thankfully, and no one knows it happened, but I can’t forget it. But it went on for a long time and I don't know if I miss him or the sex! I tell others that I'm stressed from work and anything else I can think of, but it's got to stop, but when?
It is imperative to remember you aren’t pining away only for the person. You miss the adventure, the excitement, the sexual tension and release that made you feel so vibrant before. Get back on your feet, get a new hobby, write, paint, learn to square dance - but get up and get busy. Most of all, be proud that you did it right and never got caught. Now get out there and carry on with your life!