How to Have an Affair and NOT Get Caught: Recent Comments

Comment on How to Have an Affair and NOT Get Caught

2007-12-06T14:08:22Z

Before I got married I had to cut ties with all my friends cos I didnt want this to be a problem in my marriage.

But I later discoverd that my hubby was still seeing a female from before our marriage and I felt betrayed cos he failed to disclose this to me I HAVE TO FIND OUT. He constantly defends his relationship with her telling me theres nothing between them when I can see that these two share something.

I have pleaded with him to end it, but he still calls her and lies about it.

I've given up and I'm thinking of having a thing on the side in hope of getting caught just to get even so maybe it will make him feel waht he is putting me through by still having relations with this other lady!!!!

Reply:
He burned you and now you'll burn him and all you'll have are scars. Rather than plead (as you say in your mail) sit with him and talk - calmly This is something the two of you must work out.

An affair is something personal and should be safe and fun at the same time. It's not used as a tactic; it's not used for revenge. Then it's not an affair - it's war.

First get your house in order, till you feel secure in your marriage (or out of your marrige). This is up to the TWO of you.

Then, if one day you really feel you want an affair, come back. At least you won't be out to hurt someone. You'll only do it for pleasure.

Again, sit and talk together, calmly.

All the best,
Lauren

Comment on How to Have an Affair and NOT Get Caught

2007-09-27T02:12:36Z

I can't lie. My husband was a dead lay and if I hadn't of had an affair, I would have left him and broken up our home. Now I can go out, get the attention I need, and come home a happy wife. Is that SO wrong????

I used the http://www.affairtips.com web site for tips. I am looking for your book when it comes out too. When it that happening???

Reply:
There was a slight delay due to a big move the company made, but it's almost finished now and the book should be coming out very soon.

There's nothing wrong if you get the attention and (hopefully) the great sex that you lack. Otherwise remember one thing - don't forget your husband. During an affair, you may remember your lover and forget to still put your arm around him at night, or have coffee together, or just sit and talk. This way you're sure to have the best of both worlds.

Best of luck to you,
Lauren

Comment on How to Have an Affair and NOT Get Caught

2007-05-22T18:08:06Z

Ha,ha....
very interesting my dear friend. You are living in the right state & city, for the sins of a married couple....
I wish you all the luck in the world on your book... and looking forward to a sign copied from you.....

Reply:

Thanks! I want this book to help people who really need the affair without it hurting anyone. Wish me luck!
Take care!
Lauren

Comment on How to Have an Affair and NOT Get Caught

2007-05-22T02:49:08Z

Dear Loyal Lilly:

Let’s say that you and your husband truly love one another. There’s one problem. Your spouse only makes love every three months. It’s just not in his physical make up to make love more than that. After a year, five years, you realize that you’re making love only four times a YEAR.

What do you do? Divorce him? NO! Make him go to doctors who really can’t help him and embarrass him? NO! You love him and you carry on. And then there comes a time when you think, “If I could ONLY have sex on the side, without my husband knowing. He must never be hurt!” You think of it more and more, until you realize it’s doable! But how? How can you have sex without embarrassing or hurting the person you love the most?

I can tell you how.

Comment on How to Have an Affair and NOT Get Caught

2007-05-20T20:52:37Z

Dear Ms. Tallman,
For anyone who orders & reads your up coming book, I have some advice:
If you are actually thinking of having an affair... get a divorce. Would you want your partner sneaking around behind your back? You owe them honesty! If it's over then it's over. Wake up and admit your not in love anymore.
If you still want to buy this book, then maybe you should also get a copy for your spouse. Then you both are on equal ground.